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Discover How To Create a Juicy, Heart Connected and Soulful Relationship 

The Insights to Intimacy Deep Dive Retreat is a 5-day deep experiential embodiment event hosted at New Eden for those wishing to explore a wider range of heart centred connection.

Experience a combination of personal intimacy & relational practice, embodied men and women's work, and the magic of doing your inner healing, together with others in community.

"The greatest gift you can give to your partner,

is to become a fully alive YOU."
Christian Pankhurst, Founder of Heart iQ


About The Retreat

At an upcoming Insights to Intimacy deep dive retreat at New Eden, you'll get to heal the traumas that emerge in intimate connection, which, if left unattended, can create dissonance, disconnection and potentially relationship break down.

All trauma was created in relationship and relationship will be needed for your healing.


During this event we will meet and surrender to whatever arises in the moment as you connect with others, learning and becoming aware of all the ways you close your Heart and re-enact your childhood wounding in your intimacy today.


You'll also learn when it's appropriate to get certain needs met by your brothers and sisters. This way you can get nourished so that you can meet your partner with a heart full of love, rather than depleted and defensive.


Couples attending will also get a chance to participate in a 'Relationship Lab' where you will receive the undivided attention of Christian and the group field on your relationship to work on any area you want. The singles watching will learn and take away profound medicine as they recognise themselves in every dynamic revealed.


If you are in a relationship (whatever the constellation: couple, throuple or pod) or feel finally ready to attract a partner who can meet you, full spectrum, then we invite you to join us at the upcoming Insights to Intimacy deep dive retreat at New Eden. 


“I feel really open—I feel like I have love for the whole world. I never thought it would be possible in such a short time to get insights that I’ve been trying to find for so long. I’ve been trying to let go of an old relationship that was so painful for me, and I could finally release it through this work.”

—  Anne

About The Facilitator

Christian Pankhurst is a world-leading authority on heart-centered communication and heart intelligent relationships. He is the creator of the Heart IQ™ Method, a coaching framework that specializes in group dynamics and intimacy development. 

Graduating as a Chiropractor in 2002, Christian has worked closely with many world-leading experts in the field of personal transformation. In 2006, after extensive study with mentors from multiple disciplines, he began developing a new approach to coaching individuals and couples that integrates practices from natural healing philosophies, various spiritual teachings, therapeutic psychology, dance and movement modalities, martial arts, embodiment practices, non-violent communication, circling and numerous healing arts disciplines. This grand synthesis provides students with a deep understanding of the human condition and gives them the essential tools they need to help individuals and couples both heal and awaken.

Christian is also the author of 'Insights To Intimacy' - Why Relationships Fail and How To Make Them Work.

Christian lives in the Netherlands at the Heart IQ™ Headquarters - a stunning four-hectare retreat and community center near Groningen. Together with his team, they spread the work of Heart IQ™ around the world.