Men's Retreats


The Incredible Upgrade That Men Receive at New Eden

A sacred combination of men's work, nourishment & brotherhood makes the men's work at New Eden something very special. Witness some of the stories of these men in this short documentary.

"The greatest gift you can give to your partner,

is to love & connect with your brothers."
Christian Pankhurst, Founder of Heart iQ


About The Work

Highly Experiential 

The work that we do is experiential and on one had challenging and on another, deeply relaxing and nourishing. This is about getting in your body and connecting to who you really are and bringing forth your authentic expression.



Deep & Intimate

We're here not to play around on the surface, but get to the depths of who you are, what your life is about and what's holding you back from your full expression and leadership. Be prepared to go on a journey of personal exploration, shedding what's ready to dissolve and receive a sacred imprint of what it means to be a conscious, heart connected and sexually potent man.


A big part of the work is around releasing core stress in the nervous system by practicing opening our hearts to other men. When we as brothers can receive each other fully and let ourselves drop into the collective amplified field of brotherhood, something magical happens that simultaneously raises consciousness and heals old wounds.

Practice The Work with Women

During the Embodied Man Retreat, you will learn practices to become more open, conscious and present. Simultaneously, there is an Evoke! Women's retreat taking place in a different part of New Eden. Several times during the retreat, the groups come together for mutual practice and discovery. This is a perfect opportunity to get high level feedback on how you impact the feminine so that you can upgrade how you show up as a man.



  • RELEASE THE TOXIC MASCULINE and claim your healthy expression of power in the world.

  • RE-CONNECT WITH THE POWER OF YOUR FEELING BODY to move through the suppression many men carry in their emotions due to insecurity and fear from childhood experiences. 

  • RELEASE CORE STRESS and surrender into divine relaxation. 

  • CONNECTION TO YOUR OWN SPIRITUAL NATURE to come into direct contact with your inner wisdom and guidance

  • CONNECTION WITH YOUR LIFE'S MISSION AND PURPOSE to remember why you are really here, and what gifts you bring to the world

  • DEEPEN YOUR SEXUAL PRACTICE  so that you can open the feminine Heart with integrity and depth. 

  • BUILDING HEALTHY MAN-TO-MAN RELATIONSHIPS that lead to growth, connection and real authenticity. Experience brotherhood.



"I'm Willing and Ready"

You're at a point in your life where you are ready and open to look at new possibilities. We'll guide you through this process of growth and discovery and meet you exactly where you're at.


"I'm Already Awakening"

You've awoken to greater possibilities and enquired about the nature of your life. For you, it's time to really live it in the world, where it's not just philosophy in your mind, but a lived reality in your life.


"I'm Consciously Leading"

You have stepped into an upgraded life by embodying the lessons and wisdom that life has revealed to you. For you, it's time to truly surrender to your life's mission and calling.



Life changing. The training at New Eden was deep, challenging and transformational. I got clear insight into what my largest growth potential is as well as what gifts I'm already bringing to the world. Spending time with men in brotherhood gave me an invaluable imprint of the love, support and healing that is possible when we come together. I highly recommend working with Christian and Heart iQ!

—  Henrik


About The Facilitator

Christian Pankhurst is a world-leading authority on heart-centered communication and heart intelligent relationships. He is the creator of the Heart IQ™ Method, a coaching framework that specializes in group dynamics and intimacy development. 

Graduating as a Chiropractor in 2002, Christian has worked closely with many world-leading experts in the field of personal transformation. In 2006, after extensive study with mentors from multiple disciplines, he began developing a new approach to coaching individuals and couples that integrates practices from natural healing philosophies, various spiritual teachings, therapeutic psychology, dance and movement modalities, martial arts, embodiment practices, non-violent communication, circling and numerous healing arts disciplines. This grand synthesis provides students with a deep understanding of the human condition and gives them the essential tools they need to help men, women & couples both heal and awaken.

Christian is also the author of 'Insights To Intimacy' - Why Relationships Fail and How To Make Them Work.

Christian lives in the Netherlands at the Heart iQ™ Headquarters - a stunning four-hectare retreat and community center near Groningen. Together with his team, they spread the work of Heart IQ™ around the world.