Heart iQ 90-Day Challenge

Develop the Emotional Hygiene Skills & Detox From The Unhealthy Communication Habits That Keep You Stuck in Intimate Connection

This online training will be opening soon. In the mean time, learn more about our upcoming Intimacy event...

Insights to Intimacy LIVE is a 5-day deep dive retreat hosted at New Eden for those wishing to explore a wider range of sexual, energetic and heart centred connection.

Experience a combination of deep healing work, Heart iQ communication practice, and sexual sacred theatre, where you will explore the many ways you can deepen your connection with yourself and each other. 

"The greatest gift you can give to your partner,

is to become a fully alive YOU."
Christian Pankhurst, Founder of Heart iQ


About The Retreat

At an upcoming Insights to Intimacy LIVE retreat at New Eden, you'll get to heal the traumas that emerge in intimate connection, which, if left unattended, can create dissonance, disconnection and potentially relationship break down.

All trauma was created in relationship and relationship will be needed for your healing.


During this event we will meet and surrender to whatever arises in the moment as you connect with others, learning and becoming aware of all the ways you close your Heart and re-enact your childhood wounding in your intimacy today.


You'll also learn the needed communication skills to share with your beloved what is happening in your inner world, so you can navigate it together, with compassion.


The final piece to this training is the work we do to connect your sexuality with your Heart, creating the way for a deep and profound sexual connection that will sustain your intimacy for years to come.


If you are in a relationship (whatever the constellation: couple, throuple or pod) or feel finally ready to attract a partner who can meet you, full spectrum, then we invite you to join us at the upcoming Insights to Intimacy LIVE retreat at New Eden. Learn more in the video below.


“I feel really open—I feel like I have love for the whole world. I never thought it would be possible in such a short time to get insights that I’ve been trying to find for so long. I’ve been trying to let go of an old relationship that was so painful for me, and I could finally release it through this work.”

—  Anne

Day 1

  • The Relationship Tri-Factor: Healing, Communication and Sexuality

  • Recap of the 8 Intimacy Practices

  • The art of Unconditional Love and Loving What Is

  • The Purpose of Relationship is to enjoy it!

  • Connecting to your Intrinsic Goodness 

  • Embracing ALL your emotions - the good the bad and the ugly.

  • Discover the 7 Keys to a delicious relationship

  • Sacred Agreements for Couples

  • The Laws of Energetic Couple Dynamics

Day 2

  • What does it mean to be Responsive?

  • Responsiveness Demo & Training Experience

  • The power of Acknowledgement  

  • Offering Reassurance that Lands

  • Recognition and ownership of what we bring that doesn't work

  • Acknowledgement Demo & Training Experience

  • Guided Movement Experience

Day 3

  • Creating your own 'Clearing Practice'

  • Tuning in, Checking in and Closure

  • Relationship Tracking 

  • Dare to share conversations 

  • Increasing authenticity when sharing 

  • Sharing disappointments  

  • Confirming your partner's reality

  • Sharing uncontained energy and truth


  • The Advanced Clearing Practice

  • Deal breakers 

  • Pain body agreements 

  • Pain body triggers 

  • Navigating shadow ranges 

  • Increasing your polarity and sexual magnetism 

  • Men-Women dynamics

  • Polarity Movement Experience 

  • Surrender-Resistance training


  • Heart centred closure

  • Ending the gender war

  • Sharing the medicine  

  • Closure experience and good byes

About The Facilitator

Christian Pankhurst is a world-leading authority on heart-centered communication and heart intelligent relationships. He is the creator of the Heart IQ™ Method, a coaching framework that specializes in group dynamics and intimacy development. 

Graduating as a Chiropractor in 2002, Christian has worked closely with many world-leading experts in the field of personal transformation. In 2006, after extensive study with mentors from multiple disciplines, he began developing a new approach to coaching individuals and couples that integrates practices from natural healing philosophies, various spiritual teachings, therapeutic psychology, dance and movement modalities, martial arts, embodiment practices, non-violent communication, circling and numerous healing arts disciplines. This grand synthesis provides students with a deep understanding of the human condition and gives them the essential tools they need to help individuals and couples both heal and awaken.

Christian is also the author of 'Insights To Intimacy' - Why Relationships Fail and How To Make Them Work.

Christian lives in the Netherlands at the Heart IQ™ Headquarters - a stunning four-hectare retreat and community center near Groningen. Together with his team, they spread the work of Heart IQ™ around the world.